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प्रेमविवाह करायची इच्छा होती (म्हणजे आहे) पण आता तशी आशा सोडून दिल्यातच जमा आहे. पुष्कळ वेळा प्रयत्न झाले, पण दुर्दैवाने (की माझ्या सुदैवाने ते माहित नाही) तडीस मिळवू शकलो नाही. :-D आता काय झालंय, एका वयात स्वत:च्या आवडी निवडींबद्दल आपण इतके निगरगट्ट होतो आणि जशी हवी तशी मुलगी मिळणे आणि मिळालीच तर प्रेम होऊन लग्न होणे एकंदरीतच अवघड आहे हे साहजिकच त्यामुळे जाणवायला लागते. लोकांनाही घाई होते, आणि सतत कानावर ही आणि असली वाक्ये ऐकू येतात - 'आता काय विचार आहे? करून टाक लग्न.' - (कुणीतरी, काका मामा खूप considerate मूड मध्ये असताना), 'तुला काय problem आहे कळत नाही, कर ना लग्न?' - विवाहित मित्र आणि त्यांच्या बायका कोरस मध्ये'.' 'गाढवा, असेल कुणी घोडी तर आण - दाखव मला, घराची गरज काय आहे, कळतंय की नाही?' - इति परमपूज्य - डायरेक्ट तबेल्याचा ambience तयार करतात. 'अरे तुझा बायोडाटा बनव ना आणि दे मला . . .पत्रिके बरोबर दे, किती वेळा सांगितलं! काय तू; इतक्या मैत्रिणीपैकी एकाशी देखील नाही जमवू शकला!' - लग्न होऊन ५ वर्षांपूर्वीच सासरी गेलेलं बहीण नावाचं माझं...

Boys simply can't talk about the break-up. I am sure boys think that its going to be painful for himself and her. Boys subconsciously rationalise that the things are not going the way it should be and its best for each others interest to depart the separate ways but we just can't express that.   Case 1 (Unsecured male) Pratik - Preeti - In relationship for last 3 years!   Pratik's thoughts - I would have loved Preeti as my wife. I have had a passionate relationship with her but everything is gradually changing. The passion is slowly disappearing. She is no more opening up with me. I am tired of her secrecy. I no longer make her do anything against her will. The relationship often feels stiff. It was so good two and half years back. Man! she loved me. . but I am sure she assumes me now. It gets frustrating when I share everything to her over a call and she just listens to me without reciprocating. I am tired of loving her . . . but I will surely miss her and the wonderful p...

Mr. John - a routine cancer patient visiting at our clinic was as usual present for his follow-up visit at his physician Dr. Moody. At the same time as he was waiting in the consultation room, Dr. Moody was consulting with the other person - Mr. Harris whose wife - Mrs. Stella was suffering from stomach cancer. The discussion contained a brief of the treatment options available for Harri s's wife. Importantly, disheartened Mr. Harris had come to Dr. Moody for second opinion  because the doctor under whom Stella was receiving the treatment earlier declared Mr. Harris that there is no point in going for treatment. His point was Mrs. Stella's cancer stage was no more curable, therefore advised that  she  should ‘live’ more rather than getting bed-ridden and just stretching painful life .  Unlike the other doctor; Dr. Moody was on the other hand quite optimistic. about Stella's treatment. He convinced Mr. Harris that he should go for the treatment and definitely has to ...